Day 282 - Holy Cuteness

The Brit's 8-(maybe)-year-old niece decided she is going to be a ninja for Halloween because she can kick high.

Sorry if you just died from cuteness.

Day 276 - That's Life

I am deleting people from Facebook. I keep getting invites and random emailings from people when I don't even know them, talk to them or live in the same state. It's refreshing.

I watched the show Gelson is on. I didn't see him, but I had a hard time paying attention. It was so boring. Not even trashy, dumb good. Just dumb. And I can watch some pretty dumb stuff. It looks like it was shot in the '90s. I don't know if I can watch another episode to look for him again.

On the other hand, Degrassi was great! As usual. I can't wait for next week.

The Brit and I were going to try to hang out this weekend, but he's been swamped with projects, etc. He did ask to see me this afternoon, but Legal Eagle and I are going Halloween shopping and I needed to finish my work before. Plus I'm kind of annoyed with him. He just isn't making much of an effort and just says "I'd love to see you," "Can't wait to see you," etc. instead of actually trying to see me. I don't know how I feel about it, but I do know that not hearing from him in between dates is no longer acceptable. He said he'll text me early this next week to make plans, so we'll see. I didn't respond.

However, not hanging out with the Brit has been great for my productivity. I am ahead on work, able to blog and did some cleaning.

I can't wait to go shopping for my Halloween costume. No idea what I will be, but who cares!

That's all in my life.

Oh! Wait, I ran into Neighbor this week. Haven't seen him since sometime in August. He is still "with" the 19-year-old, although now she is 20. He wrote her a song for her birthday. He told me I should meet her because he thinks I'd really like her. Sorry, I don't hang out with 20-year-olds.

Now, that's all in my life.

Day 272 - Other Stuff

I feel like all I write about is The Brit on here. Yeesh.

So, other stuff that is going on in my life...

I'm trying to think of a really good Halloween costume. I'd love to do something really creative, but I am failing to be creative and think of anything. Not that I have Halloween plans, but it's always good to plan ahead.

I'm going home for Turkey Day. First time in 3 years. Pretty exciting. I'm looking forward to eating the usuals that my family makes, not having to listen to all the fun they are having over the phone, the post-eating walk, Charlie Brown Thanksgiving, turkey hands, and much, much more (but not the cold weather).

The family is going to Austin, Texas for Christmas. It is official, tickets bought, everything booked. We usually go away for Christmas, but have been home in Chicago for the last two, so we are all anxious to get out of town! And no cold weather for this girly!

I'm very ready for the next few months.

Day 243 - The 4th Is Upon Us

I'm trying to decide if I want to partake in some 4th of July plans.

Here is what they are:

Go to Orange County, bike to Huntington Beach, hit some bars and then a house party and then back to Legal Eagle's bf's place to sleep.

PRO: I'd have 4th plans.

CON: I'd be the guest of a guest's gf.

PRO: I've had fun with this group before (many of the same people from last year's Halloween).

CON: I'd have to be in Orange County.

PRO: It won't be all couples.

CON: I have to work on the 5th (freelancers don't get holidays) and would want to be back in Hollywood at a normal hour.

PRO: It won't be outrageously expensive.

CON: I'm single.

PRO: I really could embrace being the awesome single girl.

CON: Orange County. Have I mentioned that?

Soooo...I should decide soon. LE is going to try to get a bike for me to ride from her boss. I keep going back and forth on whether or not I want to go. Ugh. I'll keep you updated.

Day 169 cont. - Well, That Is Interesting...

Adjusted convo between Legal Eagle and me today:

LE: Do you remember The Mime?

Me: Hmmm...Halloween? Yeah.

LE: [Double B] asked me again last night if you would be into going out with him. I said, "Remember, she likes tall guys?"

Me: (makes some sort of quizzical face.)

LE: [Double B] said The Mime was quite taken by you.

Me: Taken?!

LE: I know.

Me: Wow, it's been quite awhile since someone has been taken by me.

LE: (laughs) Well, apparently they've been talking about you.

Me: It was unfair that he was a mime and I never saw his face.

LE: So you'd be into going out with him?

Me: Sure. He was nice and I can wear flats, probably better for my feet anyway.

LE: Well, now I feel like an ass for saying you wouldn't be into him.



Remember The Mime? He was from one of this year's Halloween parties and was my next set-up from Casey and Cappie. I thought he was on the short side, but nice. I looked at my original blog and it did say that I'd be interested in seeing him again sans mime makeup. It's not like he was shorter than me, just not super tall.


Convo continued later:

LE: So you really would be interested in going out with The Mime?

Me: Yeah.

LE: Like maybe [Double B] and I could set up a double date?

Me: Oooh...not an awkward dinner double date.

LE: No! Something active...Dave and Busters! (LE has been dying to go to Dave and Busters for a date I think.)

Me: Yeah, that would be good, just not some sit-down, dinner only thing. Nothing awkward.



And then later:

LE: (laughs while texting) We're talking about you.

Me: Huh?

LE: [Double B] and I are talking about you and your new boyfriend.



Looks like the wheels are already in motion. I still need some details about how I was mentioned to Double B. Like, The Mime just recently talked about me? What was exactly said about me? Taken by what? Looks, charm, humor, drunkenness?


My only hesitation is about how we first met. It was at the Halloween party and I was a bit of a drunky drunk. Not sloppy drunk, but drunk. Soooo embarrassing. I remember talking to him and bits of the convo, but not all. Oops. I'm guessing he won't hold that against me, I hope. But maybe this means that it wasn't just taken by looks because I probably had a slight case of drunk eyes, messy hair and non-cared for makeup. Let's just hope he doesn't choose to remind me of anything embarrassing I did or said.


Well folks, I will keep you updated on if this set-up actually happens. It is quite nice to know that a guy is making an effort to go after me and showing some interest. Big points. I won't let it convince me that I'm into him, but it is allowing me to brush aside the height thing for now. And hey, I've dated same-height guys before. Maybe I'm growing up.

Day 147 cont. - Oh, Halloween!

I'm in a good mood and realized I never showed the pics from Halloween!


^I look better in this pic than the one that is coming up. Edit: I changed my mind...other one maybe looks better. Or they look exactly the same.


^The football guy! Also, what's with my death grip on my drink??


^Well at least my nails look cute in their death grip.

Day 146 - Diagnosis: Indifference

Uuggghhhh...

So, remember how I was all "Cute guys! cute guys!" not too long ago? Now I'm on a different page and, actually, I think I have been there for a while.

I'll start from the end and go back in time.

Last night Legal Eagle and I went out with some people (including the guy she is dating!). Long story short, she wants to set me up with Double B's roommate...we'll call him RJ. How did we get to this? Back up!

LE has been going out with Double B and chatting and whatever. LE and Casey have been catching up on this and are working hard to set me up.

Side note: I know...set ups. I have not asked for them, but I choose to entertain the idea and their "matchmaking" skills and am just going along with whatever.

Sooo...they eventually came around to Double B's roomie. And now he's the next guy up to bat. And...I briefly met him Saturday night. He seems nice, cute, in shape and at least taller than me in flats. But upon hearing about him a few days before and preparing to meet him, I felt completely indifferent. I didn't pry LE for info or attempt to do a Facebook search or anything. I could have, I just didn't.

And on top of this, when LE was telling me that her and Casey began thinking that RJ was a good choice, she mentioned that Casey was afraid of Mr. Kiss Me being an ass to me if that was ever an option for a set up. At this point I realized that the last time I thought of MKM was all of two days after Halloween. He was clearly a fleeting thought. Usually I would attempt to get more info on him or think of how I could search online, etc., etc. And here I thought I was "intrigued."

Once I realized all this I thought back to every guy I've met or thought was cute or anything and while I'm sure all of them are great, they've been nothing more than a thought at the time and then gone. Pretty much even the anticipation of being set up makes me indifferent.

Where's this indifference come from? I have a few ideas: maybe it's because of the set ups - I have to wonder if I'm being set up with someone just because we're both single. Not all single people like each other. Or maybe it's because most of the guys I've been meeting are in Orange County and dating someone from there just seems difficult. Or maybe it's because the guys aren't necessarily showing interest. Well, OK MKM has hit on me and then there was that other "Johnny Depp" guy who wouldn't leave me alone. And I'm adorable so who wouldn't be smitten?

What don't I like about this feeling of indifference? Mostly it's OK, but my one fear about it is that it's a result of me wanting to be "wowed" by a guy. Some may say I have high standards and am "picky." Sometimes I do feel like I want, want, want it all.

But where's this leave our leading lady? Well, I'll go along with set ups and anything else because what have I got to lose? But mostly, I'm going to focus on me. All me. I'm going to be all about work and finally get back to my writing. I'm going to get working out again! It's been so long and it'll feel so good to get running. Also, I'm going to paint my nails a lot. Weird, right? But I'm obsessed lately and want to buy all sorts of cute colors. Plus nail polish is cheaper than say, accessories, so it's an OK treat for myself. Also I will spend some time deciding if I should buy a winter coat or a couple of sweater dresses instead. I'm going to work on networking because I need to work on that. Oh, and I'm going to read that dang Steve Harvey book for X-mas book club!

And who knows where my indifference will take me!

Day 141 - Do We Approve?

This was the question posed yesterday to me from Legal Eagle upon Double B finally asking her out on a date for this Thursday!!!!

The rest of the convo went as such:


Me: Yeah!

LE: Really?

Me: I must say, I'm very impressed with how he's handled getting in touch with you and asking you out.

LE: I know. Me too.

Me: I wasn't sure when he'd call to schedule it, but Tuesday was the perfect day because he gave you Monday to yourself.

LE: Yeah, I was going to give him until Wednesday.


To recap: Double B first got in touch with LE on Sunday, after the Halloween extravaganza with just a few simple, but well-handled texts congratulating her Dallas Cowboys who won and saying he'd send some pictures from Halloween. Well played Double B.

But now the apartment is in full "LE is going on a date" mode. So fun! Tonight we pick out the outfit.

And of course, we have already further discussed the details of the date:


LE: Is it going to be awkward?

Me: Probably for the first few minutes.

LE: What do we talk about? What if we have nothing in common?

Me: Hmm...talk about his dog, job, family, siblings, football. Talk about positive things, nothing negative. You'll have something in common. Anyway, you're chatty. You'll be fine.

LE: What do I eat? Ugh, eating in front of guys is weird.

Me: Well not something hard or messy to cut like steak. Not pasta, not salad. Fish! No, fish smells like fish. Hmm...maybe don't eat?

LE: Maybe small finger foods.

Me: Yeah. Oh and don't forget your toothbrush.

LE: I am not staying over at his place!

(Pause)

Me: To brush your teeth before going out. You do realize that you leave at 5AM, so that will have been the last time you brushed your teeth.

LE: (laughs) Good thinking. How do I greet him?

Me: A hug?

LE: Do I have to offer to pay?

Me: I'd say dig around in your purse like you are looking for your wallet. He asked you out and it's not a blind date or anything. Until women are paid the exact same as men, then men should pay on the first date.

LE: Plus he already knows I'm poor. I told him. He said, "You're not a lawyer?".

Me: Aw, he probably thought he had a sugar mama on his hands.

LE: Dreams crushed.


I think they'll have a smashing time!

And of course LE said she will try to do some recon work on Mr. Kiss Me. (Note: I do not make her do this as I am staying out of the situation as long as a girlfriend is in the picture.) Actually, she did tell Casey that I wasn't totally opposed to MKM and Casey said he definitely wouldn't be opposed to me. To which I reminded LE that I am definitely opposed to guys with girlfriends.

In the meantime, all this talking about dates has reminded me...I need to go on a date! With anyone!

Day 139 cont. - Halloween, You've Done It Again!

Rewind!!! Here is the rest of the info on Mr. Kiss Me.

MKM has a girlfriend in Chicago. Confused already? He began dating an old friend who lives in Chicago and she was going to move out here, but it was too difficult or fell apart or something, so she isn't here. Not only does he have a girlfriend in Chicago, Saturday night he was hanging out with some other girl. No idea if they are dating or what. She was dressed as a Dallas Cowboys' cheerleader and totally did not do it justice. She didn't even have white boots on.

Soooo....MKM is apparently a big-time player. Cheats on all his girlfriends or something. And, as LE put it, I am not interested in being the other other woman.

Although, while MKM and I were in the bar area, LE told me what happened with DCC (the cheerleader).

LE: While you were gone, DCC was getting angry because she couldn't find MKM.

Me: We were just in the bar room.

LE: I know, and we told her to go look for him and then she came back all angrily and yelled, "He isn't in there!".

Me: Weird.

LE: Yeah, I probably shouldn't have chosen that moment to say, "Where's Molly?"

LE is totally going to get me hunted down by an angry DCC.

DCC eventually found us, after he bought me a "make up" drink. I took my cue to exit once she was around.

What is my next move you ask? No move. I'm not involving myself in any mess, especially since he is a friend of a friend and I hate to complicate things more. He is definitely the kind of guy you keep at arm's length.

Plus, since I've been mulling it over and initially thought the apology was incredibly genuine and kind, I've convinced myself to not be too naive.

First, he didn't remember what he said. This means Cappie most likely told him to apologize. Major props to Cappie for always looking out for LE and me.

Second, being that he's a player, I have to wonder if what he says is genuine or he's just so practiced in saying all the right things.

It seemed real, but again, keeping this boy at arm's length. At the very least, he now knows he can't get away with this stuff with me. I have a feeling most girls let him get away with whatever he wants, whereas I have no problem ignoring you if you misstep.

But, moving forward a bit, LE and Double B are finally, possibly going to go out. He asked and now it's just a matter of making it happen. Did I fail to mention that we are pretty sure MKM and Double B are roommates? Yeah, life can never be simple.

With this all in motion, there are two things to consider. LE will definitely be getting more info on MKM. She offered to do some recon work. Ha! Also, if LE and Double B hang out more, then I'm sure we'll be spending more time with this group and likely MKM.

For now, I will sit back and just be. Not just because I'm pretty sure he's still a dog, but also because Casey and Cappie first tried to set me up with MKM (who I decided was a tool) and then with the Mime (who I've also pretty much decided is a no-go) and now I'm back to MKM. Seems like I'm all over the place and don't want to complicate anything with Casey and Cappie.

But MKM does have a really nice smile and voice. If only he didn't have 50 girlfriends!

Day 139 - Halloween, You've Done It Again!

Legal Eagle and I had an awesome Halloween. Possibly the best one yet. So let me start from the beginning:

LE and I had plans to go out to the OC and out with LE's coworker (who we will call Casey) and the coworker's bf (who we will call Cappie). These nicknames are from a TV show, but give me a break, I watch a lot of TV. So we went over to Casey and Cappie's place where Double B (their friend who they have been trying to set up LE with for a year now!) was also going to get together with us all.

The five of us got ready, caught up and had a drink to begin celebrating the fabulous Halloween that we were in store for. First up, we went to Cappie's dad's place where he was throwing a party. The property was incredible and decorated all out. All the family and friends were incredibly nice and welcoming. They even had the cutest little dog Buddy who I instantly bonded with, go figure.

Next stop, Casey and Cappie's friends' house party. This is where I was supposed to meet a friend they wanted to set me up with. I thought I knew (after some online research) who I was meeting, but I was wrong. And this guy was short. I hate to be mean, but I have always been upfront when they have said they want to set me up with someone that I cannot do short. Oh, and he was dressed as a mime so I have no idea what he looks like. Unfair.

But I did talk with Mime (his nickname) and he was nice, but Cappie did ask why I wasn't interested in Mime and luckily I played coy and didn't say, "Short short short short. Oh and I can't tell what he looks like!" I guess we'll see...maybe meet him again under less costume-y circumstances.

Also at the party we met Johnny Depp (his nickname as he was dressed as Depp from Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas). He was a douche nozzle. First he tells Casey's sister that she is prettier than Casey, in front of Casey! And then goes on to tell Casey that she has a better face though! WTF?! Oh, and then he spent the rest of the night hitting on me and me ignoring him. LE said it was pretty funny.

Met some other really cool people at the party. Costumes included a Jesus and an old-school football player (my personal fave as he was even covered in dirt).

Finally, we made our way to Casey and Cappie's hangout where they know everyone. Continued to have an awesome time. Found some more suitors (as LE termed them) who I pretty much continued to ignore.

But, the weird part of the night came at the end and this may take a whole lot of explaining, so prepare to read.

LE asked me to close out her tab (her very cheap tab! go us!). I headed to the bar (in the other room) and waited patiently. Who of all people should come and take the stool next to me other than Mr. Kiss Me, remember him? He was the guy from many months ago who told me to kiss him. I had seen him at the house party and throughout the night, but well, pretty much ignored him too.

After I probably made a face or rolled my eyes, we did begin to talk and I was floored by what came out of his mouth!

Mr. Kiss Me: I want to apologize.

Me: Oh, OK.

MKM: I was kind of an ass to you.

Me: Yeeeahhhh.

MKM: What did I say exactly?

Me: (raised eyebrows) You don't remember?

MKM: I was in bad shape that night.

Me: You told me to kiss you.

We then had a good laugh about that because once you hear that sentence said out loud it is absolutely ridiculous. And I could see the embarrassment all over his face.

He then continued to apologize over and over, even after I said it was OK, he said he was rude and really sorry. I was impressed and while I won't say I have a crush on him or like him (that's all giving him too much credit and I still barely know him), I will say I'm intrigued by him. Great, right? No, all wrong, because the backstory on this guy is complicated.

Day 136 - Halloween 3.0

Ever since moving to California, I must admit that Legal Eagle and I have had some fun Halloweens. It has to be our best holiday out here and it's always fairly last minute and pulled together in a snap. I feel this year will be no different.

To recap: Year 1 we went to a club with LE's sister-in-law who was visiting. Danced the night away and had a million laughs.

Year 2 we went to a bar with LE's coworker and others. Low-key, karaoke, dancing and a good time.

Year 3 we will be revisiting year 2 and heading to the same place with LE's coworker and others. We had planned on staying local, but this will be lots of fun as this bar is our style and the people are always interesting. So, let's pro-con this Halloween a little. I already know pros will win, but I'm dying to make a list, so just deal.

PRO: Cheap drinks! I just know the drinks will be cheaper at this bar than where we were going to go. Face it, that's important.

CON: We have to drive to Orange County...OK, this isn't so bad because we will drive during the day and come back the next day, but alas, we have to drive.

PRO: We have somewhere to crash!

CON: I will have to wake up (hungover) at someone else's place. Not really all that bad, but I'll eventually have to haul back to my place instead of just being at my place.

PRO: Going out with a fun group of people.

PRO: Going to a bar where the people we are going with know the people who run the place. Always nice to have an automatic in and be taken care of!

CON: I'll still be in Orange County.

PRO: Orange County people are fun to watch.

PRO: I think I will be meeting one of the friends I am being set up with.

CON: I think I will be meeting one of the friends I am being set up with.

Ahh...you ask why both pro and con...time for another list!

PRO: He may be awesome for all I know.

CON: Meeting on Halloween, in costume?? Could be weird and leaves me unable to judge someone based on what they wear on a normal day.

PRO: He may have an awesome costume on and I may look totally adorable.

CON: I have to work extra hard to look totally adorable.

PRO: I may have someone there who will pay lots of attention to me.

CON: He may find someone he likes better...yeah right...

PRO: We'll be in a huge group, less pressure.

CON: If he knows we are being set up, it could be awkward and forced. If he doesn't know, I may get rejected.

PRO: Let's face it, he'll likely adore me.

CON: He lives in Orange County, possible Republican.

PRO: It's been a long time since I've been on a date.

CON: He lives in Orange County...that would be long-distance dating.

Eh, for all I know he may come down with swine flu and not make it. But I'm sure if he does you will be getting another pro-con list and lots of Halloween stories. I'm getting excited!!!

EDIT: PRO/CON: I am still currently missing a tooth. Odds are I will mention this. Either makes me totally awesome and funny or just a girl with a missing tooth. We shall see!

Day 52 - Looking For The Good

There has been so much yucky-ness going on that I am desperately trying to look forward to something good or at least think of good things that are going on.

Well, Barbar has lost a little hair above his eye. Legal Eagle Googled this symptom and it says that it does happen to cats. It’s not like it looks diseased or anything. But something for me to keep an eye on.

LE and I also went to Long Beach this weekend to check things out and see where we might like to live. I am so ready to move there. There were some high school (?) aged kids there on a scavenger hunt and I was way way jealous! It looked pretty fun.

Well, the weather is nice.

I will be going home to Chicago for Xmas. It will be mighty cold and probably snowy and I have no idea what I’ll wear, but I think it will be kind of nice for me to be back in Chicago for a little bit. Who would’ve thought?

LE and I also carved a pumpkin this weekend.



^ It almost makes 80 degrees California feel like fall.

My mom then asked if this was Jack Nicholson. Love it!

So what else is good out here? Thanksgiving is soon, which means good food and cheesecake.

Oh, my life is so not WILAY right now. Maybe this is just a slow point and things will be on the up again. But I totally cannot even think about seeing where I am at in my WILAY progress right now because it would not be good.

So, here’s hoping!

Day 48 - No News...

Georgie just stopped by.

He commented on our Halloween decorations and how he liked them (our door and window are covered in webs and whatnot).

I think he also tried to peek in my room a little to see what it looks like or to look for the cats.

I’ve missed him.

And I wish I could dress him in little suits and sweater vests.

I need a new hobby.